Referring a Child for Counseling
What are typical reasons for seeing the elementary counselor?
The following are typical concerns that may be referred to the elementary counselor:
School
Academic success/failure Playground concerns (e.g. teasing, bullying, harassment)
Peer relationships Motivation
Authority Relationships Homework
Behavior adjustments Attendance
Transition Exceptional needs
Separation from home Attention/focus concerns
School phobia 504 accommodations
Family
Divorce Single parent family
Death Blended families
New family member Economic issues
Siblings Child abuse or neglect
Parental authority Parenting skills
Parental expectations Home/school relationship
Domestic violence Homelessness
Adoption issues Foster care
Serious illness Chemical dependency
Community
Getting along in the neighborhood Alcohol and other drugs
Vandalism Resources
Referral agencies Personal safety/protective behavior
Self
Low self concept Habits
Values Emotional state
Physical appearance Responsibility
Sex role identification Self expectations
Attitude Suicide prevention
Organization skills Assertiveness
Referral Process
Who refers a child for counseling?
Children may refer themselves or be referred to the school counselor by the following sources:
Teacher Principal
Parent Other school personnel
Outside agencies Peers
Siblings STAT, IEP, or building consult team
The referral process can be either formal or informal. There are various referral forms that can be used at the discretion of the counselor.
When should a referral for counseling be considered?
The following are some behavioral characteristics to watch for before referring a child for school-based counseling:
1) Change in previous behavior pattern.
2) Difficulty establishing and maintaining friendships.
3) Difficulty in managing stressful situations, e.g. getting upset easily, crying, procrastination, absenteeism.
4) Noticeable moodiness, unusual thoughts or actions.
5) Extreme stubbornness, indifference, or lack of flexibility.
6) Academic difficulties not consistent with ability.